DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: Close to a decade ago, I wrote you what was a pretty standard letter: recent break-up after relationship from teens to early thirties, full of self-loathing, seeking permission to ... more

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DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: This isn’t so much a question about dating, but more of a “why am I so bad at socialising?” kind of inquiry.... more

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DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I broke up with my ex, and my only female relationship, a few years back and took time to enjoy the solitude.... more

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DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: Well I don’t really know how to start this, but for some backstory me and my girlfriend have been together since we were 13. I’m 18 now. Through those 5 years, we’ve had many ups a... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m a 27-year-old man working as a Quantitative researcher at a high-frequency trading firm. On paper, my life checks all the boxes: I’ve got a high-status, high-income job, making... more

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